"SEE FINISH"

They have two kids and he is yet to make a decent lady out of her, the maltreatment and attitude he gives her made her look out for alternatives. When it came, this new man was updated on her condition and eventually fell in love with her, and even proposed marriage. She accepted and just before the necessary traditional rites were to be performed, the father of her two kids decided that he was actually in love with her and wants to marry her. She laughed about the whole drama he was creating and said "this see finish wey him do me don do, we don dey for seven years now, him never talk say him wan marry me, I born two children foram, cook food, wash him cloth, chop beating on top and now wey God don bring person wey komot me for shame and wipe my tears, him wan come spoil my life again, e no go work oh, I no de go anywhere, I no need am again, if him want I go carry the children join because him no de even bring chop money"... Both families tried sorting things out but this lady stood her ground. She legally got married to her new found love who also took her kids as his. 

Now back to you and I, what are those things you take for granted? Who are those people you believe will always be there come-what-may so you can afford to misbehave, maltreat and humiliate? Are they family? Wife? Husband? Friends? Work? Talent? Gifts? or even God? I suggest you have a rethink, if nothing last forever, then you should learn to cherish everything you are holding in your hands now. Time will happen and those things will be no more, then you will wish you had a better grasp of them when you had them. Yes, people can be very annoying and frustrating, yes they can be imperfect and drive you crazy and mad but is that not what life is all about? Nothing and nobody is perfect even though we seek and demand perfection. Those things and experiences are all part of your growth process.

Ladies and gentlemen, who and what is that that you have "see finish"? Whoever and whatever it is, I hope you will not regret it when it turns to "seeing you finish". Everything and everyone is important, treat as such, it will not always be convenient and I am not saying you must tolerate people and things that don't value you, I am saying you should hold and cherish those things you value because even though they are replaceable, there can never be an exact of anything.

#STAYFOCUSED

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